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There is an important difference between love and friendship. While the former delights in extremes and opposites, the latter demands equality. |
Last night, ready to fall asleep, and dear brain decides to get to work. It is actually nothing - but it still didn't leave me serene. You see it doesn't feels right to take/get money from a friend. At least not for me, unless that certain person owes or that we've decided to split the price. Then it's fine because then we have come to an agreement and its a question of his/her's concious :P (referring to my bff).
Anyway, i thought of all ways for it to be okay to take, whatever, the money but the solutions, just, didn't feel right. I thought of it as a business deal but then i can't see past the fact that we are >friends<.
The solution, i've concluded is that when it comes to money - don't accept it unless its from your boss, your grandma (that because she never gives up! ^^ believe me i've tried!!) or a reasonable gift. *silence* OH, right, the solution! The solution is that i'd much rather prefer that friend to do something with that money for instance taking me out on dinner, or maybe go bowling or something else where the money works as something to build our "-ship" closer. By "-ship" i mean friendship or relationship. Do you follow?
Okay, its getting hot in here and I'm a lot better, my illness is close to gone. I got coughs and a slight running nose but it is definitely getting better :)
Now you guys take care and I'll write in here later.
Lots of love,
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