Break the bubble and be a butterfly!

Let me be honest with you.... this has been troubling me and i still haven't found the right question(s) to ask in order to verify the answers i have. However what i do want to share with you and is that in order to become a diamond you shouldn't be afraid for heat and pressure. 


Shit happens - it does every time (now note that i hate this phrase "shit happens" but i'll use it to prove my point.) Shit happens when you are afraid of getting the results you want. Shit happens when you let it happen. Shit happens when you are too comfortable in you comfort zone. Shit happens when you don't go all the way. 

An example could be a cake, for a cake to be delicious you have to leave it in the oven for x amount of minutes otherwise it will be sticky and not edible. Same goes with the things you do. They have an x amount of time in order to be "perfect." What you should do to get the perfection or ideal results is to stick with it long enough and work for it w-h-o-l-e-h-e-a-r-t-e-d-l-y. 

What i want to tell you is rather personal. Some may be offended by it some may just think I'm full or myself - and i say I don't care. This way of responding is new for me. Usually I do the reversed and care too much i realized it has to change. 


Now i have settled for things that are way way below my standards, but not anymore. I'm struggling to even write about it but it will have a stronger effect if it is out.  So here is goes. Lol, its hard. Okay.... I have unique people in my life in the variation is great and i love it and all of them have a function. You see we interact with people who have a function in our life, you could say a purpose maybe similar goals as to us or maybe just for the company. Here is what bothers me never ever ever keep a person to fill a void. You are unfair both to yourself and to that person. 


So, this entry became longer than i intentionally planned but i want to stress the fact that I'm a proactive person. A wave meaning >>in constant motion<<. 

If we met 3 months ago - I was a different person. Yes if you where lucky to peek my "core" then you'll recognize me but I'm on a whole different level right now than i was then and I bet you are too! Changes can happen over a night. Be open to it. Let it in. 

What stresses me is that people expect their contacts to be the same person all the time - that they should act like they've always acted. speak like they've always spoken. I shout NO! It is just so wrong! Who are they to limit YOU? What are lives are they living? Break the bubble and be a butterfly! (hey that was a good one - came up with it all by myself :P) 

Life is about change, discovery and adventure. Gain new

experience, become awesome in what you love to do. 

To people that have met me or are to meet me understand this: today you have me, Urmi, version 1.0 - in 6 months I'm an upgraded version. It's natural but the version is upgraded. There is nothing anyone can do to stop the installation. 


Like my teenage idol said: There's only two types of people in this world: The ones that entertain [hard workers] and the ones that observe [passive people].  (Circus - Britney Spears)

Thank you for reading this rather provocative post. I wish you a great day, Take Care :)